We all want to be incredible in bed, that is just a fact! Every single person on this planet wants to be the best sex their partner ever had, they want to perform like a porn star, to have their partner praise their sexual skills and to have that confidence that they are the sex gods and goddesses that their partners always dreamt of, however, this is much easier said than done. Sex is a very complex thing, that much is true but, it is also a fun adventure to be explored with every single moan, movement, tremble and thrust.
There is truly nothing better than to hear your partner tell you how great you were in bed, how badly they want you to do what you did last night again and how you gave them the best sex of their entire life. This is something that everyone desires but that can be quite difficult to achieve. There are many tips online on how to provide your partner with the best sex they’ve ever had however, many of them are redundant and end up leaving you with more questions than answers. Today we will give you all the tips and tricks on how you can flip your sex life upside down for the better!
Never Skip Foreplay
If you’re a woman it is only natural that, when you get your best lingerie on, you want to jump straight into the action with your partner, without any prior teases, however, that can be somewhat detrimental to the overall experience. Many couples tend to skip foreplay and jump straight into the action but that is something that should never be skipped, no matter how horny you are! Foreplay is a must, building up the excitement and making every single moment that comes afterwards, way more intense than otherwise!
There are many ways you can have foreplay with your partner. Some of those ways are, for example, with a sensual massage. Rubbing some essential oils on your partner’s naked body will intensify every single sensation, making sure you touch and feel every single inch of their body, as they get more and more aroused by it. With such a massage, it is natural that it won’t take long until the full-on action takes place however, because foreplay has now been performed, everything will be much more intense than otherwise, simply because the build-up is already there!
Drive Your Partner Crazy Over You
Another very important aspect of being absolutely unforgettable in bed is that you need to drive your partner crazy over you, however, how will you achieve this? Well, the answer is actually surprisingly simple: confidence! Confidence definitely plays a big role in one’s sexual life, after all, if you are not confident in your body, you will most likely be more inclined to hide certain parts, not move as freely and not take control or let go of control when the time comes.
In order to have confidence in your body and your sexual skills, you have to believe in yourself and truly believe that you’re going to give your partner the best sex they’ve ever had. However, this does not mean that you should deceive yourself either! Believing in yourself and having that confidence also means that you know yourself well, that you know what your strengths and your weaknesses are and that you know what you can and cannot confidently do! Confidence is simply knowing yourself well and not being afraid of showing it and, once you do that, you can be sure that your partner will be head over heels for you!
Get To Know Yourself
Speaking of having confidence and knowing yourself well, getting to know yourself is incredibly important as well when trying to be the sex god or goddess your partner dreams of. You have to know what you like and what feels good in order to provide your partner with the best possible sexual experience. By simply masturbating and understanding how you like things to be done and, by studying what your partner likes as well, you can find a middle ground for both of you, which will give you the legroom to experiment and go crazy on your partner, in the best possible way.
Sex Games
Sometimes, in order for you to provide your partner with amazing sex, you need to spice it up a little and, there is no better way to do so than with some sex games! There are plenty of different board games and Question and Answer games out there that are designed to make sex a lot more fun and, you should definitely take advantage of them! This is a great way to break the monotony and to let a game control your every movement, which can lead to things that you would normally not do of your own will!
Don’t Be Afraid Of Sex Toys
Speaking of spicing up your sex life, sex toys are perfect for when you want to be in control of what’s happening without letting a game deciding it! A lot of people tend to be scared of incorporating sex toys into their sex life but, sex toys can provide amazing experiences, even when using it with your partner! They can be used as a form of foreplay (teasing your partner before you get on top of each other) or as a form of sex itself (using sex toys to dominate your partner or be dominated by them and having them play with your body as they see fit or otherwise), which is incredible.
There is a lot of room for imagination when it comes to using sex toys in one’s sex life and all of them can add great benefits to the overall experience, all while making it feel new, refreshing and fun!
Flipping your sex life upside down (in the best possible way) doesn’t have to be a chore, in fact, it can be incredibly natural and organic and, with these tips, you can truly achieve it and be the sex god or goddess you want to be for your partner.
