BDSM – Brat Submissives and Brat Tamers

The Brat Submissive and the “Brat Tamer” – Ever had a partner who was just not as kinky as you? Or maybe you’ve been craving a kinkier relationship but didn’t want to scare your partner away? If you’re in a relationship like that, brats might be the submissive role for you. But if you’re not familiar with the brat submissive role, it can be difficult to know how to approach it. What does a brat do? How do brats and brat tamers start building their BDSM relationship through kink play? Let’s take a look…

What is a ‘brat,’ and how does the role work in BDSM?

A ‘brat’ is someone who identifies as a submissive or bottom in a dom-sub relationship, often acting out and misbehaving in order to elicit a reaction from the dominant partner. A bratting act is a negotiated act between the two partners that involves teasing or taunting each other to stimulate the dominant response. This may involve bailing on plans, acting unruly or intentionally messing up on purpose so the dominant will discipline them harshly in order to fulfill the brat’s fantasy of being reprimanded in a sexual manner. The brat might push back or act demanding, trying to trigger the dominant to discipline them harshly.

Another role in BDSM is ‘tamer’. A ‘tamer’ is the dom who exercises control over his submissive partner through verbal direction and physical guidance such as spanking.

(We’ve got loads of British mature porn and chav porn babes as well as ex-Studio 66 babes performing in a host of BDSM porn scenes in our VIP members area.)

What is a brat-tamer?

A brat-tamer is a dominant in a BDSM relationship who takes on the role of disciplining the brat. This person may be a submissive or masochist, and they enjoy the challenge of taming their brat and making them submit. A brat tamer typically has the patience to deal with their brat’s behaviour and still gain pleasure from it. Earning the brat’s respect is also an important part of the job. They must be able to discipline the brat in a way that pleases them without making them feel too hurt or scared.

A big part of being a brat tamer is having good communication skills with your partner. Good communication will help you understand your partner’s needs and desires, which will lead to a more trusting and happy relationship overall.

(If you like what you saw on S66-Chat, see those same babes performing live on the babe channels now!)

A few other types of consensual submissives:

There are many different types of submissives, and they can vary based on their kink preferences, relationship dynamics, and overall submission mindset. Brats and SAMs (smart-ass masochists) are submissives who enjoy teasing and taunting their partner to elicit a reaction.

Masochists enjoy pain inflicted on them, slaves are submissives who are the servants to their Dom, with or without sex involved, and brides/grooms are submissives who are the partners of their partner during an intimate encounter. All of these submissive types have different kink preferences.

How brats can act out in BDSM

Brats may misbehave, act out, or defy orders in order to receive discipline. Brats may attempt to regain a dom’s attention and submission by using their superior sexuality. This could take the form of dominance and control in the bedroom or by taking on more dominant roles outside of the bedroom. Some brats may push back and shout orders to their dom in hopes of being disciplined in a sexual way. Discipline is used to satisfy both the brat and the dom, with each player finding satisfaction in the other’s submission and control. The key for brats is to have fun with BDSM without crossing the line into abuse or disrespect. A safe, consensual play relationship is one that everyone can benefit from.

Bratty tips for beginners

Have you ever tried playing the bratty submissive? It’s a fun way to experiment with your kink and BDSM relationship. As a bratty submissive, it’s important to establish a bratty character and determine how bratty you want to be. Start by writing down your bratty objectives for the session. These can be anything from making your Dominant squirm to testing their boundaries.

Once you’ve figured out your bratty objectives, make a list of disobedient actions you’d like to take during playtime. You can include things like questioning your Dominant or disobeying their commands. Letting your submissive personality shine through will help wind up your Dominant even when they aren’t around. Also, don’t be afraid to be candid as you play up your bratty persona. Finally, don’t forget to tease and taunt your Dominant whenever the opportunity arises.

(Register free on babecall app to get involved with some naughty feet fetish show, some big tit porn shows and some kinky teen brats)

Tell your partner why it turns you on.

A ‘’Brat Tamer” is someone who enjoys playing with a submissive bratty partner and likes the challenge it brings. The push-and-pull element of a “Brat Tamer” and a submissive can be an enjoyable part of BDSM. A ‘’Brat Tamer” takes control of a situation by displaying their superior sexual dominance and denying submissive requests. The satisfaction a ‘Brat Tamer’ gets when they break down bratty behavior makes them feel powerful and in control.

Be authentic

Being a brat submissive requires a high level of communication between partners to ensure that the submissive partner’s desires are met. This may entail testing the dominant’s skills and patience to make sure they are a good match. As with any relationship, it’s important to negotiate the tone of the relationship with your dominant to make sure it is what both parties are comfortable with. Playfulness doesn’t make you any less submissive. Instead, it should be viewed as an integral part of the dynamic play between partners. One way to do this is by giving your dominant partner space to be dominant without seeming threatened or annoyed. Also, it is crucial to listen carefully to what your partner has to say while you’re playing together. This will help create a welcoming and enjoyable environment for both parties.

Roleplay

Roleplay can be a helpful way for beginners to bratting. Subs can flip power-exchange scenes into brat territory by responding to a dominant’s command. This can add an extra level of intensity and intimacy to your play.

How to be a Brat when sexting

A submissive can be a bratty sub over text by communicating clearly and explicitly. When becoming a bratty submissive, it’s important to agree in advance on a particular emoji or other textual signal that you’re being bratty. A submissive should push the limits of their brattiness as often as possible to keep it interesting. And not only should they push the boundaries of brattiness, but they should also constantly provoke the top. This will lead to many exciting moments in the relationship that both partners can enjoy.

To sum up…

If you are submissive, bratty behavior can be a way of taking charge of your own submission. We all want to be submissive in the right way. Bratty submissives want to be submissives who are allowed to be bratty, and they want the full range of submission that they desire.

Browse the girl’s individual profile pages on Babenation to find a Bratty sub who knows how to push your buttons. There are many cam girl’s experienced in all forms of BDSM; from foot worship and penis humiliation to JOI and edging. Check out pervcam to awaken your voyeuristic fantasies or call the live babeshows for an adult phone chat.

Sign up as a VIP to gain access to exclusive porn videos starring the live babeshow models and real life British pornstars.